Why I love the state of Texas
Off-topic, obviously, but it's slow going in the sports dead zone known as summer. This may not be of interest to many, but here it goes:
So as I'm sure I've mentioned a few times, I'm in the Army (for another week, anyway), I've lived all over, we just had a baby, and I live in the Maryland-DC suburbs. As I get ready to become a civilian again, and people ask if I plan to stay in MD long, I reflect on what could keep me here and what would draw me elsewhere. Then I thought of two semi-analogous situations, how different populations treat people in different areas.
In February of 2004 I was in Iraq and had to be med-evac'ed out of theater. I was lifted to a hospital in Germany for examination, and I was then to be mailed back to the US to make my way back to Ft. Hood, where I was stationed. As I was fortunate to be in good enough shape to be able to take commercial air, the Army put me on an itinerary to Austin. I had just enough time after notification to call my wife, then in the Air Force and stationed up in Nebraska, that I was coming home. She called my parents to drive down from Wichita, and she arranged to fly down to my brother's place in Houston, pick up my car there, and drive up to Austin to meet me when I got off the jet.
Well, my reliable little Prizm didn't make it to Austin. On the outskirts of Giddings the whole thing just went south on her, I believe the alternator. It crawled to a halt right in front of a car dealership, and the people there told her not to get the car fixed there, but to see if she could make it to the Shell station just a little up the road. The valiant car made it just that far before finally quitting on her, and my wife found herself stranded in Giddings with no way to meet me at the airport.
Enter the owner of the Shell station. This guy sees my young wife, her eyes consumed with tears, and asks her what's wrong. She explained the whole situation, and the man sprang into action. He had his mechanics pull another car out of the garage just a few minutes before closing time and start working on fixing mine, tracks down the needed parts, and he calls his wife and daughter to bring their car up to the station. They all pile in and drive my wife, whom they've all just met, all the way to Austin-Bergstrom to meet me at the terminal. They wait there until they verify that my flight isn't going to be late or anything, and then they head back to Giddings so the man can take care of my car. After I arrived, my parents finally got there, and we all had a great reunion in my favorite city. I slept like I hadn't slept in almost a year. The next morning, we drove to Giddings, and the man refused to allow us to pay for the repairs on my car. I insisted that they let us take them all to lunch, so we all went to their favorite BBQ joint in their little town. They turned out to be a warm, jovial family, and of course they were Longhorns fans. They went above and beyond the call of decency and humanity to help out a soldier and his family when needed, and refused to let the inconvenience even begin to get in their way.
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Fast forward to 2009. My wife, 8.5mos. pregnant, is driving home from work, and she blows a tire. She maneuvers her car to the shoulder of one of the nation's busiest expressways, the Baltimore-Washington Parkway, and tries to dig out the spare tire. It's raining, she's having no luck at all, etc. Hundreds upon hundreds of cars zoom right past her, probably the first time in years that Maryland drivers have done anything but slow down to 15mph to get a look at a freaking flat tire. Finally, after 20min., a nice electrician from North Carolina spots her and pulls over to help. Turns out he had a pregnant wife at home too, and couldn't imagine that someone wouldn't help someone in that position. He got her fixed up and sent her on her way.
Fast forward to yesterday. People asked me why I'd even consider moving out of the area, considering my earning potential here is so much higher than I'd make anywhere else in the country. After this morning's reflection on these two contrasting situations, I think I have a response prepared for the next person who asks. Can't wait to be back in Texas. I do know one particular Shell station on my list of first places to go when I get back.
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Texas...
First of all…Thank you SSOO much for protecting this country. It’s people like you who are the true Heroes.
Second of all, all i can say is God Bless Texas.
by mccoy12 on Jul 8, 2009 1:00 PM CDT reply actions 0 recs
Thank you!
God bless you and your family for your service. And congrats on the new addition to the family!
We love military folk down here in Texas. Welcome back!
Watch out, I bite.
by EddieTheAlbinoSquirrel on Jul 8, 2009 3:09 PM CDT reply actions 0 recs
thank you
my highest respect go to those that defend our country, and their families.
god bless texas
**get a ford truck, lose the sissy prizm
look up -- get up -- dont ever give up
by tex806 on Jul 8, 2009 3:37 PM CDT reply actions 0 recs
by burntorangehorn on Jul 8, 2009 5:07 PM CDT up reply actions 0 recs
Thanks for everything
glad to have you back in the Great State of Texas. Hearing that story really made my day.
by acho81 on Jul 8, 2009 4:12 PM CDT reply actions 0 recs
Texas welcome
I read this and drifted back to 1967 and my return to USA from Vietnam where I served in the Army in the Iron Triangle region of South Vietnam. While I can’t say it was as good as your return, I can say Texas treated me a lot better than San Francisco did (discharged there upon return from duty). It really moves me when I learn of good people supporting their soldiers. Old men make wars and young men are sent out to fight them – not that we aren’t willing to do that, but it sure is strange that people that don’t have the first real clue what you just got through fighting – would turn on you like they do. If you are going to fight someone, the US military is the last one you want to lock and load against and the first one you want to get captured by. America is a great nation and men like you represent what makes us great. Thanks for sharing and welcome home.
by Boogieman on Jul 8, 2009 4:44 PM CDT reply actions 0 recs
Hold on fellas…I’m not there yet! I have a little business to finish out here, including kicking ass, taking names, and finishing some hifallutin’ doc-something degree.
by burntorangehorn on Jul 8, 2009 5:08 PM CDT reply actions 0 recs
But thanks for the welcomes and well-wishes, of course!
by burntorangehorn on Jul 8, 2009 5:09 PM CDT up reply actions 0 recs
Great Story
First off, thanks for your service, and congrats on the new family!
I have a slightly similar story, albeit one that illustrates the difference between two cities. During one of the recent ice storms here in the metroplex, a buddy and I went out in his 4 wheel drive truck to get some breakfast. We weren’t going very far, and the roads really weren’t dangerous considering the vehicle we were in. However, it seems the smaller 2 wheel drives were having some trouble. We passed one, someone was already helping. We passed another, and someone was already helping (i’ll admit at this point we were just driving around because it was fun). Coming up to a very recently stranded passenger we stopped and helped them to a spot they could rest their car and then gave them a ride to their destination. When we got back home we flipped on the TV to see camera shot after camera shot of stranded passengers in Dallas, with streams of cars passing them and nobody stopping to help. One shot was of a mother and her young son on an overpass and nobody stopping. We just smiled and shook our heads. That doesn’t happen in Fort Worth
by rchorns on Jul 8, 2009 8:07 PM CDT reply actions 0 recs
maybe..
it’s due to their proximity to Oklahoma? My thoughts at least.
by vy til i die on Jul 8, 2009 8:46 PM CDT up reply actions 2 recs
Different animals, for sure
I live in Tarrant County, just barely. But most of my work and clients are in Dallas. There is a HUGE difference in the mentality of the cities, for better or worse.
My take? Fort Worth/Tarrant County are still home to many natives, or folks who at least spent some of their childhood in these parts. It also attracts folks from the country, who still feel “at home” there.
Dallas, on the other hand … well, it’s hard to find any natives. Most are imports from elsewhere, with a huge concentration of folks from the rust belt who fled from lack of jobs.
JMHO.
Watch out, I bite.
by EddieTheAlbinoSquirrel on Jul 9, 2009 3:20 PM CDT up reply actions 0 recs
That's true about Dallas
Which breaks my heart since I’m a Dallas native. Luckily, most of the outskirt cities are still good. I have some family in the Grapevine/Colleyville area which is always a nice trip when I’m that way.
by randomguy on Jul 10, 2009 10:33 PM CDT up reply actions 0 recs
Welcome back home Brother
When you get back here, and if you find yourself missing the military just a bit, shoot me a line. I went Guard after my Federal time and I can honestly say the Texas National Guard is the most rewarding experience(s) I’ve had in uniform.
by Grippe on Jul 8, 2009 8:45 PM CDT reply actions 0 recs
I am from Austin and currently my wife and I live in Aberdeen. I was in the active duty Army from 97-01. I know exactly the the attitudes you are talking about. If you ever need someone to watch a Horns game with in MD let me know.
"When you hear that voice, it brings a kind of class to the game." ...Frank Okam
by briordan79 on Jul 8, 2009 11:16 PM CDT reply actions 0 recs
By the way, I may take you up on this. Arlington’s nice and all, but there HAS to be enough Horns fans to make it worthwhile to have game get-togethers somewhere around Baltimore.
by burntorangehorn on Jul 17, 2009 10:33 AM CDT up reply actions 0 recs
Rhodeside Grill
Have you watched a game at the Rhodeside Grill in D.C.? Supposed to be a large Texas crowd, I’ve never made it out myself. If we could get a couple other Horns in the Baltimore area it would be great to find a bar in Baltimore to meet at. I know at least one other guy that would be in.
"When you hear that voice, it brings a kind of class to the game." ...Frank Okam
by briordan79 on Jul 21, 2009 9:47 PM CDT up reply actions 0 recs
God Bless, welcome home and congratulations on the new baby!
If You See Kay, Oh You
by texfan23 on Jul 8, 2009 11:56 PM CDT reply actions 0 recs
I had a blow out just as I was leaving Giddings on my way back to campus my freshman year. Didn’t have a spare on me, and I had been too stubborn to that point to get a cell phone (2001). Fortunately, I was near a vetinarian’s office on the south side of the road (290). They were closed, but someone was in the back taking care of the animals or something and they helped me so that I could get a spare. Very nice people.
Realizing that I would have been stuck in BFE if my tire had made it another 20 minutes, I also got a cell phone after that.
by UT_BKC on Jul 9, 2009 3:48 PM CDT reply actions 0 recs
Thanks!
Thank you for your service and your story as I was born in Texas, but grew up a Navy brat with a 22-year Navy/Marine/Vietnam Vet for a dad. I still remember in the mid-90s while I was in graduate school, I went up to Indiana to help with a restaurant opening for Spageddie’s (now called Carino’s) in South Bend. Anyway, on the way to the store from the hotel, there was a funeral procession coming down the road so I pulled over to the side out of respect as that was how I was raised in SE Texas. After I pulled over, I must have had about 10 cars honk at me for slowing down and stopping on the side as they passed by. I got to work and was sideways about how people could have been that disrespectful to the dead as well as to me who was trying to do what was right. A few of the staff that was from South Bend (where the opening was) said why would I do something stupid like pulling over just because of a hearse? In a freakin’ city full of Catholics, I get that comment? Geeez. Thank God for Texas…
by Robertpz on Jul 9, 2009 6:08 PM CDT reply actions 0 recs
First,
Thanks for your service and congrats on the new baby!!!
I’ve been to MD quite a bit for business and I would steer clear for the reasons you mentioned. I typically go to Annapolis, which is beautiful city, but I remember once going into a restaurant there and a large group was coming out when I was entering. So naturally I held the door open for them and let them out. Well apparently the couple following me in had a serious problem with me delaying their entrance into the restaurant. I couldn’t fathom why it pissed them off to wait 5 seconds to let a group out rather than forcing ourselves through the entrance. But that’s the way it is there.
To give you another quick example of the difference. My mom travels a lot and has been all over the place. She is a very heavy traveler due to work having two large (and heavy) suitcases and couple smaller (and still heavy) carry on’s. One time in Baltimore boarding the shuttle bus to go get a rental she was obviously struggling to get all the luggage on. In her struggles the driver decides to just sit in his sit, staring at her impatiently. Same circumstances in Tennessee (Nashville I think), she started to try to lug everything on the shuttle bus and the driver got on her for even attempting to load all her stuff. He told her she needs to go sit and relax and he’ll get the stuff on. Granted this didn’t happen in Texas, but it offers the contradiction between general eastern mentality to southern mentality.
by randomguy on Jul 10, 2009 10:49 PM CDT reply actions 0 recs
Dude...
I definitely agree with everyone else’s sentiments. I’m an Army brat myself (born in Germany) and I have nothing but the utmost respect for all the brave men and women in the armed services. Thank you so much for what you do with all my heart. Without your courageous services, we would not have the incredibly good fortune to enjoy all the great things we have going for us in this world, like freedom, democracy and even basic human rights. Thanks again and welcome home. And of course, congrats on the “lil burntorangehorn.” Here’s hoping they will one day become a proud Texas Ex.
This may also seem irrelevant, but to me it’s not……. Texas also has Whataburger.
Every time I feel down and depressed, I think of seven simple words by a true wise man, Matt Leinart: "I still think we're the better team" and I usually end up hurting myself by laughing so hard.
by SurferHorn257 on Jul 13, 2009 2:11 AM CDT reply actions 1 recs
Whataburger would be nice to have around here. We don’t have it in MD, obviously, but I guess we have Five Guys, which is pretty good. Honestly what I miss most is In N Out Burger, but I haven’t seen that outside the state of California.
Thanks for all the well-wishes, fellas. Wifey and I have been talking about the potential return for a while now, and I think we can make it happen. There’s no way on earth I’d be able to afford 20-30 acres and big enough house for family gatherings, which would be a couple million dollars in this area, but obviously it’s possible back in good ol’ Texas, specifically within 30mi. of downtown Austin. We’re probably 5-7yrs. away, as we still have to build up some more equity in our place here and save up some more cash so we can get the kind of exurban ranchette I want, but it’s within sight. I just wish I could convince Mack to play a home-and-home game with Maryland or Penn State while I’m still out here.
by burntorangehorn on Jul 13, 2009 8:55 AM CDT reply actions 0 recs
meade?
congrats on the new family!!
I was there for a bit. now I’m here at bragg. :( 4th Psyop Group; I’m a 25R.
JP @Fort Bragg
by thejahpaul on Jul 13, 2009 1:25 PM CDT reply actions 0 recs
Ah, yep, Meade here. I’m 35P, the MOS formerly known as 98G. But I go on transition (terminal) leave for 102.5 days in (consults watch), oh, about 60 hours. Phew!
by burntorangehorn on Jul 13, 2009 6:52 PM CDT up reply actions 0 recs
Congrats
on seperating! I went on terminal at the end of May and havent looked back since. 8 years in the AF and I figured it was time to move on. Thank you for all you did, as a guy that watched the Army do their thing in Iraq, I am proud to say I served with you guys! Good luck with everything!
by kirk1005 on Jul 14, 2009 10:15 AM CDT up reply actions 0 recs
35H (soon to be reclassing to 35F though)
done two tours. it makes me extremely pleased to hear that not all vets are going through marital issues due to their time in the service. It gives me hope that one day ill have my problems worked out. and FWIW, that is a crap-load of terminal leave man!!! i only had 44.5 days when i separated from active duty. however with the new bill that was signed into law recently, ill be getting 13 months of stop loss “were sorry for effing you over” pay from the military when they sent me to iraq…ironically, they chose the absolute worst day and person to try and ask me to re-up…. an old first line that i had when i got back from tour #1, who hung me out to dry after having surgery by not making sure i had food or water to get through the days…and he wanted to submit me for non-judicial punishment for not shaving on con-leave. the day they decided they wanted to try and push the re-up was the 1st day i should have been home and off of active duty and not even in iraq in the first place. but i digress. your story truly is inspirational. all of my buddies just couldnt understand why i didnt want to go anywhere except Texas when i got out, but its not any one specific thing that makes Texas superior to anywhere else; its just the values and the people here that make it so great.
If You See Kay, Oh You
by texfan23 on Jul 16, 2009 11:13 PM CDT up reply actions 0 recs
Man, talk about ticky-tacky. Article 15 for not shaving on convalescent leave? (1) How would he/she know that without invading your privacy while you’re on leave, and (2) what possible grounds would such an asshat have to recommend you for UCMJ punishment for such a thing? According to AR 670-1, Ch. 1-8, Hair and fingernail standards and grooming policies:
Section 2 C. Males will keep their face clean-shaven when in uniform or in civilian clothes on duty.
So since you were not on duty, you were doing nothing wrong. Sounds like another old wives’ tale that some soldiers incorrectly assume is the reg just because others told them it is, just like the assumption that hair is not supposed to touch the ears, when in fact the rule is that it cannot come over the ears or eyebrows. But I guess some NCOs would rather write you up than actually consult a regulation first.
When my unit asked me to re-up, I didn’t do what I thought I’d do, which was to laugh in their faces. Instead I had a split-second in which all the good and bad things ran through my head, and it took another half-second for my mind to recount all the things I had to thank the Army for having. So I just told them it was time for me to move on, give my wife and kids some stability (no changing schools ten times like wifey and I each did), and settle down. So here I am, on transition leave and ready to never move again unless I choose it, ready to keep my kids in the same schools as long as I can, and ready to actually build up equity in a home, which is nearly impossible in the military.
by burntorangehorn on Jul 17, 2009 9:58 AM CDT up reply actions 0 recs
I'm a little late to the party
but just want to say thank you to burntorangehorn and the other veterans on this site. I thank God every day for all y’all in the military protecting this most precious nation.
by bfaut86 on Jul 15, 2009 2:53 PM CDT reply actions 0 recs
Typical Texas Story.
Above all, I’m glad to get the opportunity to thank you and all of the military for keeping me and my family safe, as well as all my friends and neighbors. I know you see this kind of gratitude plastered all over this page, but I know that every comment is seriously heart felt. I know mine is. Those that serve as you have are never to be forgotten by most of us. We have a great country, I believe the best in the world, and it is certainly worth the protection men and women like you provide her. God Bless you and your family.
Texas is so great. I have experienced help from strangers in other states, so I know it does happen outside of our great state. But I think you are right about Texas being the place to be. I’ve always said that everywhere outside Texas is for vacationing Texans. Why would anyone want to live somewhere else??? I can’t imagine myself. Pretty much heaven for me.
Thank you again for the service. I am forever in your debt. Hook’em Horns!
by Tailgate Captain on Jul 18, 2009 8:32 AM CDT reply actions 0 recs
have you thought about SA?
First, thanks for you service to our great nation in time of war. I did 27 years in the Navy, and my son is a Marine Lcpl, 2621 (crypto operator). I now work for a defense contractor, and know that we have frequent openings for people with your MOS and clearance in our San Antonio operation. If you need any help checking out the opportunities, I’d be happy to assist.
And as a Texas expat, I know what you mean. My DW, Michigander that she is (she got us tickets to the UT-OSU game in ‘05. Gotta love her), says "for someone who hates NYers as much as you do, don’t you realize that you are just like ‘em? You both think your place is the best, and are pretty loudmouthed about it." I told her there is a huge difference. NYers say, “Boy, this place is hosed up. You should do it like we do it in NY.” Texan says, to himself, "Boy this place is hosed up. I can’t wait to get back to Texas." Post retirement, Lake Travis here I come.
by nvrfrgt63 on Jul 18, 2009 4:13 PM CDT reply actions 0 recs
I’ll be around here in MD for a little while, at least. I have definitely considered SA, and my consulting company is actually pretty big there. I just need to establish myself a little and finish another graduate degree before relocating. However, the good news is…
I GET A TASTE OF TEXAS THIS FALL! Today was my 30th birthday, and to help to console me in my nasty divorce from my beloved twenties, wifey’s main gift to me was a weekend in Austin for the KU game.
Real BBQ and football, here I come!
by burntorangehorn on Jul 19, 2009 11:08 PM CDT reply actions 0 recs
Sounds like a great wife.
You have to love a woman who has an appreciation can tolerate football. That is the same game we are planning on going to. We are staying at the Sheraton in Austin that is supposed to be under a mile from DKR.
by NeTexHorn on Jul 20, 2009 11:07 AM CDT up reply actions 0 recs
I live next door
It’s a 15 minute walk into the gates of DKR from there.
"From the waist down, Earl Campbell has the biggest legs I have ever seen on a running back." -John Madden
by run Bevo run on Jul 20, 2009 4:08 PM CDT up reply actions 0 recs
Thats wonderful.
I was hoping it would be walking distance so we wouldn’t have to drive and try to find a parking spot. I am envious that you live so close to the gates of heaven. :-)
by NeTexHorn on Jul 20, 2009 6:11 PM CDT up reply actions 0 recs
I think we’re staying at a less swanky place, but I don’t plan on spending much time in the hotel room. Heh.
And my wife doesn’t tolerate football…she loves it! Well, at least when it’s one of a handful of teams. She goes nuts for UT football, and she’s become a huge University of Texas at Nashville Tennessee Titans fan, mostly because of Vince. She owns a Vince Young Titans jersey, in fact, and even though we knew he would probably be on the bench the whole time, we went to see Vince, Bo, Michael Griffin, Howard, etc. come beat the Ravens in Baltimore. Good times. But she’s particularly great when it comes to Longhorns. She even makes me a rack of beef ribs for big games.
by burntorangehorn on Jul 20, 2009 6:31 PM CDT up reply actions 0 recs
Thats awesome.
My wife usually just takes the dog and goes to the bedroom. She enjoys going to the games, but she just can’t get into it on TV. She did start to get into baseball during the regionals an on into the CWS. I can not complain in the least though as she burned up with me at the Texas/A&M baseball game and has agreed to go to the Kansas game and Cowboys Redskins in the same weekend.
by NeTexHorn on Jul 20, 2009 6:41 PM CDT up reply actions 0 recs
might be the same company
better known by its four letter acronym? If it isn’t, I’ll bet you know who I’m talking about. We are pretty big where you are as well.
by nvrfrgt63 on Jul 20, 2009 6:30 PM CDT up reply actions 0 recs
Err…my firm has three letters in its abbreviation, although it’s usually shortened to either the first two or even just the very first word. And, um, the first word sounds like slang for alcohol.
by burntorangehorn on Jul 20, 2009 11:15 PM CDT up reply actions 0 recs
And I’m guessing your company has something about scientifically solving stuff in its motto…am I right?
by burntorangehorn on Jul 20, 2009 11:18 PM CDT up reply actions 0 recs

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